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Living in a Bucket of Crabs?

by Shaun R Smith on August 31, 2010

I was talking with a client about her community years ago and the environment of people she surrounded herself with.  Her response was “Oh, you mean crabs in a bucket.”  I’d never heard this before.  Apparently, if a crab is placed in a bucket alone, it can easily crawl out.  But if you place it in a bucket with other crabs, they will each pull down anyone attempting to rise above them – thereby keeping all the crabs stuck in the bucket.  Here’s Wikipedia’s description of the crab mentality.

How about you?  Are you living in a bucket of crabs – pulling down anyone who tries to get ahead of you or being pulled down if you start to make some headway towards your goals?  For me, it’s not always obvious.

Camoflauge Crabs

Sometimes the crabs in the bucket are well meaning and trying to be helpful.  They’re helping you figure something out, but the end result is that you’re both stuck in inertia.  Or they want to protect you, so they discourage you from taking risks where you might get hurt.

A Ladder Out of the Bucket

The easiest way to get a ladder out of the bucket is by surrounding yourself with people who are already outside the bucket.  People who are outside of the bucket think differently and have a different world view.  They see possibility where those in the bucket only see walls.  They’ve done it, so they aren’t stuck thinking about if it can be done.  And they want to be associating with others who are outside the bucket.

New Crabs in Your Life?

Is it time to surround yourself with some new crabs?  Maybe some successful and free crabs instead of those stuck in the bucket?

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The Clinic is Closed

by Shaun R Smith on August 24, 2010

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Fire those team members who are not performing, and who are not a fit for your company.

I was working with a client a number of years ago, and we came up with a saying when she was lamenting how much frustration some of her team members were causing her: “The Clinic is Closed.” If you have the wrong people on the bus (to use Jim Collins’s parlance), they will be a constant drain on your company.  Does this sound familiar: instead of spending your time away from work enjoying yourself and your loved ones, you are complaining about how Employee X didn’t deliver yet again, or how much gossip and discord Employee Y is sowing?

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How do I Know

Some signals that a bad apple has sneaked onto the team:

- He is regularly pulling in the wrong direction

- His work is not up to par

- He is not culturally a fit with the organization’s values

If you feel like you’re running a clinic, or a psych ward, or babysitting, take a look and see if you’ve got a team of A players or if you have some D players running around.

It’s Not Me – It’s You

A part of that responsibility lies with you, the business owner.  To attract great people, build a great company.  To get great employees, be a great manager.  If the regard you set for your team is so low, your employees will fall to your expectations.  People respond as you’re going to treat them.

But in my experience, while there’s improvement you could make as the owner, the major problem is just that you don’t have “A” players on your team.  If you don’t have A players, you’re not going to get great results.  And change is challenging.  I’ve never seen an employee – in the hundreds of companies I’ve worked with over the years – change from a D player to an A player.

One More Chance

I’ve also never ever had a business owner say, “wow, I should have given that person one more chance.”  It is always the other way around.  “I held on to that person for too long” because I was worried about replacing them, or because I was nervous about hurting his feelings, or because I felt bad.  And in every case, after the person has been let go, and his future has been freed – life gets better.  Guess what?  Everyone else on the team already knows who is and isn’t pulling his weight.  It affects the entire company.  It’s hard to keep A players around when they not only see your time and energy wasted on low performers, but their time and energy also.  A Players want to be on the playing field with other A players.  And if that’s not your company, they’ll find a company where they’re playing the same level game.

So the motto today: the clinic is closed!

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Secret to Taking Your Company Virtual (VIDEO Incl.)

August 17, 2010
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I had dinner the other night with a friend who works at American Express.  She loves American Express, and she’s having a great time working there.  One of the things I learned from her that night that surprised me is an initiative that she mentioned to go virtual.  I don’t know the scope or the [...]

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Is Positivity Holding You Back?

August 10, 2010
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We’ve all heard and read about the power of positive thinking.
But how does that balance with the fact that people are more motivated to avoid pain than to move towards pleasure?
Growth versus Contentment
I think that the most successful and happy lives are led in the balance of growth and contentment.  If the scale is off [...]

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SWSWSWMO

August 3, 2010
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If you’ve done work to improve your selling skills, you might have come across the expression “SWSWSWMO.”  Or Some Will, Some Won’t, So What, Move on!  Dealing with sales rejection is something every business owner has to face – and many have to coach your sales teams through it also.
So what’s the answer – BALANCE.
Learn [...]

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5 Ways to Beat Business-owner Burnout

July 27, 2010
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Do you own a business that you love, and you’re proud of, and is successful — but sometimes makes you crazy?  Or maybe the picture is a little less rosy.  Maybe your business isn’t where you want it to be, and you’re a bit burned out and struggle to find the energy to turn it [...]

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5 Ways to Increase Your Productivity by 20% or More

July 20, 2010
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Whether you’re at the stage in your business where you are still having to work long hours or you have reached the point where your business is set up so working only a few hours will keep the engine running and growing, you want to make the most of your time.  Time is a completely [...]

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The Goldilocks of Planning

July 13, 2010
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Some people plan too much.  Some not enough.  Here you’ll learn to plan just right.
Last week, we discussed the advice of the new business book REWORK (affiliate link to buy here) by 37signals to not plan.  This week, we’ll look at the right level of planning for entrepreneurs and small business owners — by looking [...]

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REWORK’s “Don’t Plan” Advice is Irresponsible

July 6, 2010
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Since the release of the best-selling book REWORK by 37signals, I’ve had several clients excitedly tell me that they don’t need to plan.  They already weren’t planning (in ways, to their peril), and they were excited to hear that they didn’t need to start.  I’m always open to learning new things so I decided to [...]

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Don’t Die Having Lived the Wrong Life

June 29, 2010
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I work with business owners every day.  Some of them are in places that they never wanted to be.  They are doing things that they never wanted to do.
I’m not in the Gary Vee camp that says you have to be 110% passionately in love with everything you do every second of the day.  I’m [...]

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